......... But it looks like I will have to have a set of dies dedicated to the one rifle...that still doesn't seem right....
You are going to have to adjust the dies correctly regardless of how many sets you have. When you find the correct die height, measure the gap between the bottom of the die and the shell holder. Buy a 9/16" or 5/8" id x 1" od shim that thickness to place on top of your shell holder when resizing. Then you can adjust the die so it bottoms like you always have.