Roy, I feel your pain.
First NF I bought I cussed, yelled, turned red in the face, had steam blowing out my ears and practically disassembled the entire thing before my wife came downstairs to my man room and asked me what my problem was because she could hear cussing and yelling upstairs. I told her my new high dollar NF scope was a *** and didn't work right. She suggested I read the instructions and within seconds it was lighted. I really hate it when she does that.