So... If I read the OP correctly, the topic under discussion here is "Why no love for the 40," and not "which is the most certain, reasonably-carried, human-stopper," (We'd all be carrying a 4" 44 mag revolver) or "What's the best choice to carry if you are a professional on duty in a situation likely to encounter bank robbers with body armor or a band of terrorists."
Speaking for the average civilian guy, and evidently a majority of local police forces would tend to agree here (and I'm by no means calling them average guys) the 9mm, as loaded with modern bullets and modern propellants in modern weapons, offers a superior balance, BALANCE, of effective stopping power on humans, ease of carry, ease of shooting (both practice and when lives are on the line) and cost.
The factors of "if you are man enough" and "just train more" are pretty much non-factors here, IMHO
If you happen to prefer the 40, then you'll get no argument from me. Peace brother. More power to you. Respectfully, do go forth and be happy; live long and prosper.
Disclosure: I own a 9, a .38sp, a .45 ACP. a .357 mag, a .41mag, and a Ruger Colt .45 hog leg. Recoil alone is not the main issue here. I have shot my buddy's .40. It's nice. Maybe one day I'll pick one of my own up. For EDC though, or even nightstand, me, I'm just not in a hurry to do so. YMMV.
Speaking for the average civilian guy, and evidently a majority of local police forces would tend to agree here (and I'm by no means calling them average guys) the 9mm, as loaded with modern bullets and modern propellants in modern weapons, offers a superior balance, BALANCE, of effective stopping power on humans, ease of carry, ease of shooting (both practice and when lives are on the line) and cost.
The factors of "if you are man enough" and "just train more" are pretty much non-factors here, IMHO
If you happen to prefer the 40, then you'll get no argument from me. Peace brother. More power to you. Respectfully, do go forth and be happy; live long and prosper.
Disclosure: I own a 9, a .38sp, a .45 ACP. a .357 mag, a .41mag, and a Ruger Colt .45 hog leg. Recoil alone is not the main issue here. I have shot my buddy's .40. It's nice. Maybe one day I'll pick one of my own up. For EDC though, or even nightstand, me, I'm just not in a hurry to do so. YMMV.