Sorry you had such a bad experience. I've been there with back surgery. 9 and counting. There are hospitals I will not go back to. Several DRs. Told me there was no hope and I was as good as I was ever gonna get. I couldn't walk and was always in severe pain. Just plain miserable.
A surgeon at Emery University (Emery Othopedic and Spine) In Atlanta, Dheera Ananthchrishnon better known as Dr. A. She is US born to Indian parents, pretty much saved my life. She re-broke and then rebuilt my back from S2-T10 after my fall And several unsuccessful operations at other facilities. She did what no other doctor could or was willing to do and she did it right. I was very fortunate to have found her. Unfortunately so many people don't find the right doctor, or the right facility, or can't use the right facility due to insurance reasons. I sincerely hope you can find the right Dr. And get some relief soon.