I did not read all the responses, and after the first page, I really don't feel like going throug the rest of them.
Massad says it quite eloquently, so I will post his statement -
I know that all areas around the country are going to be different. But if you think that we are only out to arrest people, I'm sorry, but you are simply ignorant. Honestly, the VAST majority of us (law enforcement) are terrified of making even minor mistakes, because, in some areas of the country, even the smallest mistake we make can lead us to crippling civil lawsuits, which could lead to poverty and us putting our family out of their home, loss of our job, or even criminal penalties. The LAST thing we want to do is make a false arrest, or a decision that is not made with the full and complete story of what happened, with full intent on doing what is right by the justice system, and by God.
When someone fails to tell us the full and complete facts of the case, we are left with ONLY whatever is leftover. If the innocent person decides to not say anything at all to police, than all that is left over may be the guilty person, weaving a bunch of lies that paints the innocent person in a bad light.....what would the citizens have us do? Trust our "gut" and go AGAINST the facts presented in the case? At risk of possibly loosing our entire livelihood or facing criminal penalties?
Some may not understand. When I make a critical decision in my job as a Deputy, it is not for what I think would look best on a monthly activity log, or in any form of statistics, or to be more efficient for my boss. This decision could be as small as whether or not to turn on my emergency overhead lights to pull someone over. I make my decisions based on what is right, and what I must do. If I make my decisions wrong, even the smallest decisions I HAVE to make literally EVERY day, than my five year old girl may end up without Christmas presents, without food on the table, or without a home. I make my decisions not just for myself, but for my family. **** the Department, I make my decisions based on what I know, and what is right, based on the facts that I know.
If we don't have the basic facts of any given case, then expecting us to make the "right" decision, is simply ignorant. We as police officers are humans, just like all of those reading this. We can't read minds, we can't decipher facts out of thin air, and we can't violate statutes. In an encounter like the one described by the op, give us a an honest statement of the facts. We will do what needs to be done at that time. And even if the officer acts unrighteously, which is uncommon.....then if you acted in a criminal manner, it will be sorted out in court. If you acted in a righteous manner, it will also be sorted out in court.
If you decide to hide facts from us, we will only be left with what is left over, and so be it. In this day and age, we in law enforcement can't afford work in the gray area. We have to remain black and white, or otherwise, face the risk of forsaking our family or ourselves.