Gone Ballistic and Sanford 338, sorry to hear of your challenges. Keep up the fight. Recently took another family member, five in 24 months, through similar situation. When it came time for the hospice portion of his journey, he struggled with similar dilemma. Of course, he considered selling everything. But, he came to accept it was too much hassle......and a waste of his precious remaining heartbeats.......old too soon; smart too late, he said. Didn't trust the undertaker body preparer, wasn't sure what currency would be appropriate. and couldn't find a service to wire the funds to his next address. We shared many laughs during that part of his journey.
After much thought and discussion, he decided to personally give each firearm, scope, spotting scope, reloading equipment, hunting gear, all his many toys, to his personally chosen recipient. I brought each item to his location and brought the recipient to visit. In addition to feeling he cut an attorney out of the process, he got far more joy out of visiting with special people and personally giving the item directly to them. In many instances, he signed the item, sometimes with a personal comment or memory recollection. The recipients were very appreciative, touched by his thoughtfulness, shared some fond memories, and he passed the torch to a younger generation to carry on. Gave him many pleasant moments as his time wound down. Just a thought for your consideration. Hope it doesn't come to that for each of you, but we are all just tourists passing through.
We don't know each other, haven't met, probably won't meet in person. But, I do care about you. As a side note, it is appointed unto man "once to die, and then the judgment." "Every knee will bow". We will all get religion. It is just a matter whether we get religion in time or just a little too late. I encourage you to get religion in time. Not a connection with bricks and mortar religion, but a personal experience with The One that matters. It's easy; it's real; and, its FREE...pre-paid in full a long, long time ago. Best deal in the Universe. Reference John 3:16. This life is just a dress rehearsal for the really, really important big experience. Best wishes.