I know you can open up the bolt face, but with what your wanting to do, no need. With what you said your looking for, I would look at -
6.5x284
Excellent option, great brass and component options, easy to find solid load data, easy to get to shoot well, will fit into your desired barrel life, and while they are optimum in a medium action, they should run in a long just fine.
6.5 Sherman
A step up from the 6.5x284 performance wise, mainly if you just want to be different. Peterson makes quality .270 brass to fireform, and while there is some load data out there showing some pretty outstanding velocities, if you load it a little more conservatively (say, a 140 @ 3100 from a 24"), your barrel and component life will be really good all things considered. If you run it jist below pressure signs though, it may or may not get you the barrel life you want.
270 Sherman
Again, if you want to be different. A *little* better barrel life than the 6.5 Sherman. I have done a lot of work with three of them. A 19" runs the 140 badlands SBDII @ 3030 fps with a conservative load of rl26, max was around 3150-3175 range. Out of a 25.5", the same 140 runs at 3240 with vv n565, pressure signs began to show up around 3325 fps. That 25.5" also sent the 170 Berger at 2940 using H1000, pressure showed up around 3000 fps. Again, using Peterson .270 brass. The downside to these two, is no factory options to even fireform with. All roll your own. But a cool cartridge, with plenty of performance.
280 ai
Mainly because of the factory support. Good brass available, well known load data, and just a little behind a 7 mag. With this, your getting into heavier bullets to get a good bc, so recoil will start to increase, but so will barrel life over all the others.
i also have a couple .260ai's built on short actions that I love, and with proper throating in a medium or long action can really get some stellar performance. My 29" barreled one is shooting the 156 Berger at 2935 with rl26, initial pressure signs came around at 3000. If it was throated about another .200" to where seating was appropriate, OAL would be around 3.150" iirc (currently 2.950 to fit in my aics mag), I'm sure I would gain a fair bit of performance. At that point, I would be equivalent to a 6.5x284. Or if I'm going to use a medium/long action, I could just get a normal 6.5x284 and not worry about forming.....