Look at the Lowa Zephyr GTX Hi TF or Mid
Just got a pair a week ago. Worn them every day, best fitting boot I've ever worn, extremely comfortable so far.I have settled on the Salewa. Fits your bill and they are pretty tough to boot, hehe.
I just wore out a pair that were my hiking boots for Idaho, turned every day for more than a year, then my work boots because money was tight and that has been more than a year helping my buddy do residential building and remodeling.
I'm currently using a pair of Hoka Kaha's and after years of heavy, high laced boots, my feet thank me every time they're on. Kinda a hybrid boot/basketball shoe.