I believe your gunsmith is right. What happens when you up the pressure? I think you might try a hotter load. How much "web" expansion do you have with your handloads? That is the widest part of the case body, just above the extractor cut. How many thousandths does your sizing die reduce the neck diameter? How much neck tension do you have in thousandths? I like 1.5 Thousandths or I start dimpling the noses of bullets like Accubonds, Sierra tipped GameKings, etc. I partial size with bushings and use a separate expander to get the neck tension. The lower the neck tension you can tolerate, the less variance in neck tension you will get and better SD and accuracy. Of course if you are loading a magazine full of .375 H&H, you are going to need more neck tension than on my singly loaded Highwalls.