I think it depends on a couple of things..
1. Which load is more accurate ? Could be very clear cut ! Shoot the most accurate that does not stress the setup and will offer good case life.
2. Talking with SC about this he suggested that the hot loads tended to stress the cases and only allow a couple of reloads. These ofcourse were in his guns chambered to his specs. Yours may be different.
3000 would be great if it shoots tight. Just have to do some groups to know this I guess. Either way its a hot gun and if you end up at 2900-2950 with accuracy you will be going faster than most. The deer wont know the difference anyway. Sounds like you picked a good week to be off work mate !
DUH