Its gotta be from too much head space. Has to be. I would use a full length sizer and just turn it down into the press just enough to chamber and then another 1/16 or 1/8 turn. Partial size with a full length sizer , or , if you are neck sizing, it should match your chamber even better. If you truly have excessive head space and the first firing stretches enough, it could weaken the case enough. I would compare shoulder datum lines between a fired case and a factory unfired case or a full length resized case. That is the simplest way to know.