Guns you may want to consider, in no particular order. Micro category: Hellcat, Sig P365, S&W Shield, Glock 43X, Kimber makes a new polymer handgun that I wasn't able to hold at the SHOT SHOW due to so many people in their booth. They also do the small 1911 style if you're not worried about capacity.
Honestly I would say go to a gun store that has a large selection and then hold as many as you can. I would try and pull the triggers and manipulate all the slide releases and magazine release as well. Try and find a holster that the gun fits in and see if you can try it on. The gun that fits you the best may not be one that everyone is recommending. Everyone's hands are different and what fits you may or may not fit me.