You are willingly refusing to understand what several posters are saying about energy measures at impact. They are not saying that just because 3,500 ft/lbs of energy hits an animal it will die. The point is energy measures represent the "potential" destructive impact a bullet can transmit into the thorax cavity of an animal.
The above statement is the point. In order to be effective and humane everything has to work together. Let's call it "killing energy". Given similar bullet construction and shot placement a bigger bullet (more energy), will kill better than a smaller bullet (less energy). Energy measured in ft/lbs is simply the indicative measure of potential. As an example take a Berger 215 hybrid versus a Berger 108 Elite Hunter. At 700 yards the 215 has 1802ft/lbs of energy the 108 has 830ft/lbs. Do you honestly believe the "killing energy" of the 108 is equal to the 215?
I think the message of the "energy is a useless metric" crowd is, the energy number doesn't really correlate with wound channel characteristics or killing capability. You can have low KE options like a 77TMK or 108 ELDM that consistently produce wide, deep permanent wound channels. You can have high KE options like a 225 CX or 210 TTSX (or FMJ) at low-ish velocity that will poke a very narrow hole pretty deep, resulting in a long time to incapacitation.
108 Berger and 215 Berger will produce wound channels that are more alike than different if both are at same velocity (call it 2400 fps, right in the sweet spot for both). The 215 will be a bit deeper and a bit wider, probably 5" wide vs 6-7" wide, and 18-20 vs 24ish deep but broadly speaking that same football shaped cavity of shredded tissue. It might be double the cubic inches of shredded tissue, but both are more than adequate to quickly kill an elk and you're only gaining a little bit of lateral margin for error (like you can be an inch and a half further off and still have the edge of the cavity reach the same place).
They will be very different if they are at the same energy. At 1000 ft-lb, the 215 is around 1400 fps, well below the point where upset gets unreliable. Very good chance that we have a .308ish diameter column of destroyed tissue. The 108 is doing 2050ish, and will upset reliably, producing a football shaped cavity of shredded tissue.
Even given like bullet construction, energy doesn't correlate with wound characteristics nearly as well as impact velocity.
So if same energy doesn't correlate with like bullet weights but different construction (FMJ unacceptable wound channel, mono/hard bonded is narrow but deep, Berger/ELD type very wide but maybe not as deep), doesn't correlate with like construction but different weight, what is it actually correlated with?
If you have the pieces of information that let you say something meaningful about how the energy gets applied, you already have way more specific information than what the energy number might convey.
Without knowing construction and impact velocity, energy is a useless metric. Without knowing energy value, construction and impact velocity can tell you a lot about the characteristics of the wound.