sparkyv, To attempt to add to your comfort with considering going to the 460 (X Frame, ported). It is "much more" comfortable to shoot than my 629, when the 629 is loaded "hot". My wife's comment on her first cylinder-full downrange with the 460...."That's not bad at all"! Recently, I had my 14 year old (inexperienced handgun shooter) shooting "max load" 400 grain hard cast. He was pretty comfortable, and shot pretty well!
With the firearms weight, and the porting......it's a "*Rule 4 Violation* cat" for the shooter, but lethal on the receiving-end! However, muzzle blast is "lethal" to the shooter!
memtb