No laughing here. I do the exact same. There are several variables that dicatate time in flame (elevation, specific torch, neck wall thickness, etc.) .... but if I had to guess, based on my own experience, you're not heating your brass enough to do you any good. (I have to run my Norma 7 SAUM Brass, sized and turned for a 6.5 gap for about 15 sec. I use a metronome app on my phone at 60 beats per second).... I get over 15 loads on my Norma brass this way, with phenomenal accuracy.
There are two ways to figure out what is an adequate amount of time in the flame.
A: 750* tempilaq on the INSIDE of the neck
B: anneal a couple in a dark room. Keep the neck in the flame until the neck just barely begins to give a hint of glowing red/orange.
If you're not adequately annealing, AND your dies are overworking the brass, you could easily see split necks in 3-4 firings. IMO
If nothing else, trying this is cheaper than a new set of dies. Good luck, keep us posted on what you find.