I'm 53 too, Bean. Anyway, much younger to the Forum than most but I really like it. For all intents and purposes, it is my Face Book. Many good contributors here and always good to hear From Bill, Dep, LV, JE and many, many more who always contribute in a positive way. I recognize the bantering of which you speak and if it's ramping up, that's disappointing. Case in point was that Supressor thread a few months back. What a classic! That said, I think it comes with the territory. Look at the subject matter - Guns and Hunting. Can you think of a more fertile ground for testosterone laden self aggrandizement and one upsmanship? I can't. Probably guilty of it myself sometimes. That's why it's nice to see the ladies post once in a while. Anyway, for all it's flaws, this place beats the pants off Snipers Hide, Rockslide and MD Shooters IMHO. If I gotta sift through some BS to get to the meat, It's worth it for now.
Best,
YZ