Well said, my daughter also likes a very light trigger, started her off shooting 10/22s and an old 60s circa Remington 22, both triggers were too stiff. then swapped out the 10/22 trigger for an about 3lb trigger still too stiff, polished the sear surfaces and swapped out the spring. Now she can shoot the little turkey finger targets like she made with her hand in grade school with it at 50 yards. We do not carry or hunt with the gun, bought her a 20 gauges semi swapped out the spring. My HMR swapped out the trigger. The 7mm PRC I bought that I want her to try now has a 1.5 lb trigger.
You have to use and shoot with what you feel comfortable with, I typically shoot a 2.2 to 2.5 lb trigger, have gone even lighter, but as you state, I don't carry my rifles with a round in it. Young fella for coffee was either not too bright or very inexperienced with women.
As I have learned over the years 2nd marriage (first passed) a wise man once told me happy wife happy life. As my wife has told me many times, you never acted like that before we were married. After 12 years of marriage as of this past Saturday I think to myself elephants memory have nothing on my wife. But she did allow me to order dinner for her as she forgot her glasses. Sometimes feel like being trained, but oh well we still have fun a lot of fun. At any rate have fun and be safe.
Wonderful!
As for the boy who asked me out, then felt he would be deciding what I had to drink...he was going to get me something that I know would taste terrible to me. Ordering dinner for someone who you know as well as a wife of many years is charming, but you already know her likes and dislikes. Where as this boy knows nothing about me, or what I like, huge difference. My boss and I travel together frequently on trips, sometimes I just wait for him to order, and tell the server 'Ditto' as we have similar tastes. Other times I will beat him to the table, and he has already told me to order for him, because I know him well, and would never order anything that he doesn't like. Our last restaurant meal together, he didn't even pick up his menu, just told me to order for both of us. As the server was walking away, he looked at me and said "Good choice, that is going to be delicious ". I would feel comfortable letting my boss order for me anytime as well, because he understands me. My job is to anticipate what he wants, before he even knows himself, and do anything for him, often before he asks. Before 06:00 today, and my official start time isn't until 07:00, I had his daily carry 338 prepared and on his ATV, had filled a gas can, and taken that up and filled his ATV with gas, checked the oil level, swept the snow off of it as we got our first snowfall last night, filled his insulated water bottle and put it in the trunk, made sure that there was also food in there he likes, ensured the dogs had water and food, then rode down to the horses on my ATV and checked on them, then went back to my cabin.
06:40 I heard his voice on my work radio, he knew that I had already taken care of things, so all he said was "Good morning Small, and thanks for being amazing, hope you're feeling better ".
We are going to be traveling today, before he mentions that its time to get the 530 ready, i plan to have it outside, fueled, preflight done, his personal bag packed and onboard, plus his briefcase packed and onboard. Yesterday on my day off so to speak, I put the battery charger on it, emptied the survival kit, inventoried it, repacked it, and added plenty of heavy winter clothing in our sizes, incase we have to make an emergency landing, or crash.
My point is that I know him, he knows me, as a man should know his wife. Only an arrogant fool would try and tell a woman who he knows nothing about, how she will be doing things.