NWolf, I am in a similar situation as you. I recently purchased an 8mm Mauser (Remington 700 Classic Long Action). So far I have been shooting big bullets (196, 198, 220gr) and the gun recoils like a beast. It has a muzzle break on it, that the original owner had installed before he had a health crisis and then never shot the gun (heart condition). The brake is from Magnaport, it is called the "Mag-na-brake" Rather corny name...
This is the heaviest recoiling rifle I have yet shot, particularly with these loads. I don't think too much of the Magnabrake, frankly. The ports are all around the circumference, thus in a prone position it kicks up a lot of dust. Without the brake, I get quite a bit of muzzle rise, so no way one is going to be spotting your own shots. Thats bad, since I don't have hunting buddies, I will be on my own.
There are several other factors in my case: The rifle has a butt pad, but it is not a decelerator type pad. It is also very light with the wooden stock. Also, the range I typically shoot at is really only set up for bench shooting so one can't get your weight behind the rifle effectively.
I just started reloading and shot some 150gr loads for the first time today (whitetail ammo) and as expected the recoil was quite a bit less and flatter shooting. The 1:10 twist must be sufficient for 150gr, since these were some of the smallest groups I have shot with this rifle.
So I have a long way to go to make something of this rifle. 8mm bullets seem to be pretty problematic to obtain and limited in whats available. I may go with a Shilen match barrel chambered in 7x57 instead and rework my brass to the 7mm neck size. That caliber seems to have a lot more going for it today and it looks like it will take everything that can be done with the 8x57. The stock needs to be bedded and the recoil pad changed to a Pachmeyer. The action probably needs to be blueprinted, the witness mark is much more prominent on 1 bolt lug than the other. The cheap brass millsurp ammo that is out there shoots 4-6MOA at best, which may be OK within 100 yards, but is not going to make me excited....
I have already replaced the crap Remington "9lb" lawyer trigger with a Shilen unit and have left is as shipped so far. I will probably dial it down a little after some experience.