Sometimes it's not what we want to shoot but what the rifle wants to shoot. Your 210s look like they will work out. I have some 200.20x that I plan to load in my 300 WSM, both H4350 and H4831sc were on my list of powders with IMR7828ssc.
I never want to waste the components getting new brass once fired but often I will get enough new fired, then size and prep those to fine tune or confirm the load, usually I can load up the rest of the new and not have much change. Occasionally the new brass takes up to 0.5 gr more powder due to the extra energy the brass disks up.
On your brass sizing issue. I would pull your firing pin and ejector plunger and check the brass as you size starting at 0.002" shoulder bumb. Offer that number is arbitrary because another point on the case can be tight in the chamber. You can feel that with no firing pin or plunger. As you keep sizing down and take care of the problem spot if there is one the shoulders grow longer, then come back to 0.002" bumb and then start getting shorter. I use the Redding stepped shell holder set and it's pretty interesting to start at +0.01 holder and see a shoulder not move, 0.008 maybe the shoulder bumps but the case is still tight and bolt handle not dropping freely, 0.006 maybe the shoulder gets longer because you hit a wide spot lower on the brass, this will chamber with drag on the bolt still, 0.004 might be 0.002-3" shoulder bump and now chamber with no resistance. Stop there and size them all.
That's not exactly how it works on all die, brass, chamber combos but generally +0.004-0.008 I will find where the brass chambers freely.