Due to work I have shot and helped men and women learn to shoot all kinds of small "pocket" pistols way back to when the Seecamp 32 came out. It is unavoidable to have more felt recoil the lighter and smaller the pistol is. Newton has not been wiped from history for some new day evil claim. If you have it available to use, or go to a rental shop if not. FOR ME THE KEY IS NEVER ALLOW THE PEANUT GALLARY OR YOURSELF TO SAY ONE WORD OF OPINION!! In the last five years to so I just take a handful of handguns with the prospective new owner. First they eliminate a few right away for fit, comfort, weight, both in hand and how they will carry it. On the range they eliminate a few more then even go back to what they initially eliminated. Not one has wanted a 9mm over a 380 after shooting similar sized pistols. Most in experience seems to go with a standard P365 size in 9/380 for shooting. For real carry every day the Micro 380's (LCP size) win even though the recoil is sharp.