You originally asked about the management bull hunts.
I have been hunting the Mescalero since 1987 for cows and have done several management bull hunts in the past under the old pricing structure.
Starting in 2024 there were several changes made to the management bull hunts and they are not as affordable as they used to be.
The price for a tag is $2,500 but this is only for a true "freak" bull (not just a non-typical). For a management bull (5 pt or less) there is an additional charge ($2,500 I believe) up to a certain size (280 or 300 B&C not exactly sure) and then there are published trophy fees added to that if the bull is larger than this standard.
This price does not include a guide which you must have. Most guides charge around $2,500 to $3,000.00 for the hunt. So you are at about $8k (plus guide tip) for a <300 B&C 5 pt bull.
Managment bull hunts are first come first served when the tags become available but due to the price, they do not normally sell out. There is a management hunt in August and another in January.
Currently, they are not doing any trophy hunts and in lieu of this they are doing "Package" Managment hunts in September like they did their trophy hunts where it is an all-inclusive package of managment bull tag, guide, lodging at the Inn of the Mountain Gods, all meals, meat processing and you are hunting during the rut.
Cow hunts used to be easy to draw but they have gotten tough. There are 150 tags for each of the 3 cow hunts (450 tags total) and this year there were over 2,500 applicants for each hunt. No preference points so everyone has the same chance to draw. In addition to the cow tag price ($740 this year) there is a $25 per applicant draw fee)
Yes you can have them take care of your elk as you like. You can take it with you, have them skin it, quarter or even process it for you. They have a price list there for all of these services, it is not on a gratuity basis.
You can request a guide if you know of one or they will assign one to you. There are MANY very good guides and they do a great job of managing their guides and suspending the guide if there is any wrong doing or issues. And what Herman told you about the price of the guides is correct. The guides set their own fees, most are "per elk" not "per day" and their fees do not include a tip which they do expect even though you are going direct through the guides.