Gas hole sounds too big to me too--- on a new design, I would always start smaller than I thought it might need-- it's easy to open them up with number size drill bits-- but once it's drilled you can't go back.
As far as springs--- a stiffer spring will help keep the bolt closed and help strip rounds from the mag if there is a lot of mag spring pressure.
Heavier buffers will slow the bolt unlock time and increase the dwell time but they can also counteract a heavier spring in some ways.
You might try looking at what spring, buffer, gas length system, and gas hole size other companies have used successfully in the past.....oly arms, ditech, kak, and dpms have all had 300wsm/300saum ars in the past-- see if you can find out specs on those.
It seems like the more gas there is in the cartridge/system--- the more finicky the system becomes. It may also depend on what powder you are using--- different powder burn rates and going to create different pressures and volumes at the gas port-- not al powders work well in gas gun systems.
The heavier the buffer and spring, the more gas it will take to cycle BUT the system will be more forgiving to small changes ( I found this while using an ultralight - 1oz buffer in my 308w AR, each powder/bullet combo needs a different setting on the adj. GB to function correctly-- if I put a std buffer back in, my setting are more open, but require less adjustments between loads )
Lighter bullets with faster burning powders are going to need a larger hole than heavier bullets with slower burning powders