Prove it.
Prove that the optical inspection method is a reliable indicator of pressure.
Well Hodgdon, the people that make gun powder, pressure test their data, and put out reloading manuals, told me that it is in their reloading manuals, so.....
No, you can't look at a case and feel bolt lift and say "that 22-250 is at 68,935 psi, that is too hot". To think that is what is being said is simply argumentative, and I haven't once seen someone say that. Though if I did, I would tell them it isn't possible to accurately say that.
However, you can look at a case that has a rounded primer, no cratering, no ejector mark or wipe, the bolt lifted easy, and has been loaded 8 times with the same load and primer pockets feel the same, measure case expansion (all the things that reloading manuals tell you to do....) and say that it is within an acceptable pressure range for a modern bolt rifle and this particular set of components. On the other end, you can also look at a cratered, flattened primer, ejector swipe, heavy bolt lift and significant head expansion and without hesitation say there is far too much pressure. No, you can't put a number on any of it, not that the numbers matter anyway. The case is the weak point, and the case WILL fail long before any modern rifle does. Even the toughest Lapua or ADG or Peterson brass will show signs of failure at a pressure range that is still well below the yield strength of the action it is fired in. BIGNGREEN already hit the nail on the head, but his responses were mostly ignored.
You say look at pressure data in existance- for one, pressure tested data for all the wildcats aren't out there, period. If someone says "this is close, here you go" then they aren't giving exact pressure tested data, you are still left to estimate. Simply changing bullet profiles, even if they are the same weight, or barrels, or changing the lot of powder can and will change pressure. What if you have a tight bore? You will reach pressure long before you reach a book listed safe velocity. Unless you have pressure tested data with the EXACT same LOT of brass, powder, primer, bullet, and the exact same barrel that the pressure test data was fired in, then you need to know how to read pressure signs, and attribute them to being too hot of a load. Doesn't matter squat if the books say it is safe, it may or may not be. The books are a guide, not gospel, they say that themselves.
Reading pressure from looking at a case is basic reloading knowledge, even for a brand new reloader, and is neccessary for saftey, and is also information that has been put out IN RELOADING MANUALS. The very books you are saying to follow are the ones that teach it. It doesn't take a genius to know that, for example, with a 48.5 grain load, the bolt lifted like it would have with an empty chamber, and showed no other signs. The next higher charge of 49.0 grains, there was "any" more resistence, light primer crater, and faint, barely visible ejector mark. That indicates OVER pressure, and tells you where max - 48.5, or just over max - 49.0, is in these specific components, and to stay below that to give yourself a saftey margin.
I am by no means condoning reloading up till you see pressure signs and living within a couple tenths of your pressure signs. While it likely won't blow up your gun unless something dramatic happens, it will give excessive wear on the rifle and components, and can easily lock up a gun, pierce a primer, or cause other issues with something as simple as a hot chamber, and is not advised. There is more detail on this kind of stuff and a fair saftey margin in reloading manuals.
What I am saying, is that pressure signs are in FACT necessary knowledge for reloaders, that comes from Hodgdon, Nosler, Speer, Lyman and many other manuals that I have read (and should be read and used as a guide by any reloader), and while it may differ from information given on the internet in certain forum threads, that is really ok. I will trust the people that make the components I'm using.