Haven't read past first page, but I see no mention of actual velocity, so, I will say this.
My REM 700 SPS in 300RUM has zero issues, it is accurate and shoots surprisingly well for a light skinny barrel. Holds 3 shots fired fast into a clover leaf.
Now, this is an issue I have encountered several times, I bought 3 boxes of Barnes 165g TTSX, all they had in the shop at the time, to run in the barrel and do some drops, velocities were within 30fps of the box. Ran those, set drops/dope and hunted with that ammo until gone. When I went to buy more, they had none, but they had 180g TTSX ammo, 10 boxes on the shelf, all had the same lot#, so I bought 5 boxes.
Here's the kicker, re-zeroed to be 2" high at 100 and proceeded to shoot at 300, more than double the drop that should've been…huh?
Got the Chrony out and fired 5 shots, average was 3030fps, box numbers were 3250fps! So, this ammo was more than 200fps SLOW.
Can you see where I'm going here? It may be your ammo is slow…
Cheers.