At first glance, your primers don't look excessively pressured.
I see Peterson brass, and I presume relatively tough case heads. Supposedly first rate brass. Which should be resistant to ejector plunger marking. But I haven't yet used Peterson brass.
Have you measured any muzzle velocities. MVs will generally correlate well with cartridge pressures. High MVs ~ high pressures. Low MVs ~ low pressures.
Since it sounds like a custom build, I suggest this simple test. Make sure bullets can be inserted into your fired case necks without difficulty, to help ensure you have sufficient chamber neck - to loaded cartridge case neck clearance.
Maybe contact Peterson. See what they think about those plunger marks on their 300RUM brass.
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