More years ago then a lot of people on this site have been alive , A kid was thrown head long through the gates of h!@l . On the backside of the gates were a few older hard nosed guys , maybe 3 or 4 years older but with a life time of knowledge and experience , that at first glance seemed to just make life miserable for the young guys . They took this young man under their wings but yet they would be standoffish to others . So after a few days the young guy ask why are you teaching me but not that guy over there you don't even seem to hardly talk to him . The reply was he doesn't want to listen and learn and it's going to get him killed and that's ok but we don't want him to take anybody else with him . Sure enough a few days latter he was sent home in an aluminum box . That lesson has stayed with that guy his whole life . Every last one of us makes mistakes in our life times but when you make a mistake that you have been told about before hand and chose not to listen about it what does that say to you . will you then remember it and try not to repeat it . Live but learn don't just live and stumble through life pay attention observe don't just look at things see the details that are offered for you to see . Yes you are no longer in high school but every day in life is a school day with some lesson to be gleaned from it . If you don't want to learn from some thing that's your option to do just that but after 36 plus years of killing coyote I know that they still have things to teach me and haven't quit paying attention to them . I respect them and let them tell me what they will share with me .