Since others have made suggestions not on your list... Well.. I'm gonna chime in too on that side of the fence. For long range pistol in light recoiling round... I'd go with the 7mm-08. Tons of powder, bullet, and brass out there, can load hotter or tamer depending on your tastes, and 7mm BC is bout the best you'll find. Some may argue the 6.5, but with you wanting deer, you never know when you might go for elk, and the 7mm will allow you to bump up to heavier bullets more than capable of the task.
Good luck and hope you have lots of fun making your decision... and more fun bagging deer.