I think I'm finally fully understanding your situation. If you insist on doe tags, there is no way to get 100% odds, but you could sort the areas from best odds to worst in excel or something and go down the list until you find one that has decent access by looking at onx. My guess is you can find something in the 40-60% odds range (based on 2020). But again game and fish cut way back on doe tags this year.
However, my personal opinion is that I think you should apply for the any antelope tags with your points in an area that you'll have 100% odds. If I'm understanding how points work, you have plenty of points to have 100% odds for all 4 of you with several areas. Yeah you can do a hunt later for maybe a more coveted area, but your daughter is 17, how much longer before she won't even be able to go with you? Plus how cool would it be for her to have a nice set of horns to take home? That or you should do the NM/guide thing that several have mentioned.
Just remember if your access option is an HMA, look the HMA up to ensure it has antelope as an option, and find out if it has a limited number of permission slips. If it is limited, set yourself a reminder and apply the second it becomes available to do so.