Refined coconut oil, in the cooking section of your grocer.
You can use it straight or mix it 50:50 with 99% alcohol. If you cannot find isopropanol alcohol, you can also use Everclear from your liquor store.
I use alcohol because the straight up stuff is liquid at 75° and quite solid at 50°.
Like lanolin, it lasts several years. Unlike lanolin, it smells good, and doesn't gum up your brass if you don't clean it off.
Edit to add, I'm still using the same jar I mixed five years ago.
To use, I lightly pour or spread the mix onto felt cloth in a small tray (old toaster oven tray will do). You'll acquire a sense of how much to pour. More is not better.
When I size my cases, I'll put a dozen on the tray, with light to firm pressure, roll the cases approx 1 revolution. Use rubber gloves...
Proper lube amount you usually dont see on the case but will feel it with a bare finger.
Havent had a dented case shoulder in years. In all my years of reloading, I can only remember three stuck cases, and that's not because of lube.