40 years ago I spent my time looking for that "fast" load...And during those days I figured out that brass doesn't like to be punished like that....I had everything from split necks, loose primer pockets and an occasional head separation....Now my brass seems to last a long time...I inspect...inspect and inspect.....I no longer run anything "hot" and am now getting 35-40 or more loadings from my .260s...15-20 from my 25-06s and smaller stuff like the .222 and .221 seem to last forever.....Mostly out of Rem brass and some Nosler and Win too.....
Bart B has the best handle on this....Full length resizing in a well fitted chamber is all I do too.....I neck size on occasion but neck sizing for me has been the start of do-nuts for me several times where FL from the start seems to prevent it at least in the calibers I am loading now.....
When brass is new it is the softest it will ever be (disregarding those over zealous with neck annealing)....BTW I have never annealed with flame only cold-working with an expander to "soften" necks for seating pressure consistency....
New "soft" brass is the most vulnerable for primer pocket expansion and "hot" loads do their most damage to new brass....Along with primer pocket expansion also the start of head separation is common with "hot" loads in new brass....
Any time your pockets leak, You are not only damaging your bolt and losing consistency on the target, You are jeopardizing your eyes and your own safety.....I have seen this on my own rifles and felt those gasses....This in my opinion is beyond brass life...A simple inspection with a flash light after you have de-capped your cases will show where the primers have sealed....as the "gray" soot gets closer to the head-stamp it is time to ask yourself do I crush it and throw it or do I feel in another primer and try it one more time?.......The sooty ones will also measure bigger and show out of round.....The primers seat easier....If I feel an easy seat I mark it with a felt tip for closer inspection after the next firing.....
A mistake people often make is trying to get factory velocities or more from their reloads...This is OK if you plan on shooting them only once....But if you want to your brass to last with safety and reliability in mind then work up to a comfortable load and don't stretch it beyond that (no pun intended)......
My $.02,
Randy