First off, I'm very pleased to know the OP wasn't injured. That is always a possibility in our sport and wearing the proper safety equipment always makes things even safer!
I very much doubt that any one of the suggestions (bullet weld, long case, bullet jam, case head seperation, etc.) would have caused such a catastrophic failure. To be honest, even a full charge of Varget wouldn't be quite that bad, either... at least for a few shots (although there should be indications, hard bolt lift, flattened out primers). Loading on the hot side (plus!) as a way of life? Clearly not so good for the rifle or brass! Actually, my first thought was an oversized bullet, although that should have been obvious and difficult to chamber.
I have had, at some point or another, each of the situations mentioned and never had much more than a blown primer or a bit of difficult bolt lift. Complete case head seperations weren't even noticed until just the case head ejected. Probably the worst mistake I've made while reloading was using the max data for a 210 gr. and loading a 250 gr. bullet in my .338 WM. That one set me back some and certainly got my attention! The entire primer was blown out of the case, although the case did extract ok. Them Ruger folks build a tough rifle! Figured that one out right quick and have been doubly cautious ever since!
I've had ammo that I couldn't get to release a bullet with an inertia puller (one did, finally but it took 20 minutes of smacking that hammer on the ground). There were misfires but no hot shots. I finally got smart and seated them a bit deeper first. Bullets were cold welded to the case. Long bullets, long cases, usually a bit of noticeable difference in recoil, enough to start me to checking, anyway.
While not impossible by any means, "powdering" a load of rifle powder is a whole lot harder than most people think. Back when I had my shop I used to tumble loaded ammo (especially lead pistol loads) in a large thumblers tumbler over a hot plate! I lubed the cases prior to loading, then tumbled them in clean corn cob grit to get the lube and bullet wax off... sometimes I'd leave it run overnight. Never had any problems with the powder (and yes, I pulled bullets to check).
If you stop and think about it, there are a lot of things that can go wrong rolling your own, enough that the lack of problems and injuries is a testament to the fact that our firearms are tough and generally speaking, we are all amazingly safe reloaders. Overall, I think we should all be proud of our safety record... and remember to double check everything to maintain that record.
Cheers,
crkckr