Thank you all for your ideas. They are greatly appreciated! I plan to use this rifle for hunting, and not for Bench shooting, so I doubt I will try jamming the bullet into the lands, but does .010" off of the lands sound like a good starting place and then working back out? Where I am going to be trying this for the first time I am not entirely sure that I want to get any closer than that until I am confident that I am finding the distance to the lands accurately.
Mike, what you said about changing the OAL after finding an accurate load makes sense.
Again, Thank you all for your advice! I was able to go out tonight and start breaking the barrel in, and this weekend I will be able to start working on the fun partgun)
One thing you have to remember your shooting factory rifle some are shooting custom so throating may be different.
As you seen or read Berger had a way to try for a factory chamber you might want to try that to be safe. I'm not shooting factory chamber rifles so I would expect you to use my seating depth.