Roaddog, no hurry.
Too bad about the Ex's cheapshot, but you knew it was coming from somewhere. It still sucks though. Took me a long time to figure out that women are tougher than we are, but no time at all to figure out that they're meaner too. I'm reminded of a Johnny Carson joke about going to a fancy restaurant and watching a gossip columnist that he knew cut up a steak with her tongue.
I hope Zeus is panning out. Attitude ain't always bad!
Tom