Thanks for the input, everyone. I think if I had the ability to actually look through the reticle myself it would help solve my problems, but I do not know anyone that has one. Mildots are a dime a dozen around here, but I cant find anyone close with the TMR. If anyone out there is close to Cheyenne, WY, or even the Colorado front range area and you own a TMR scope that you wouldnt mind me looking through, let me know. I get the opinion that I couldn't go wrong with either one of the reticles, be it mildot or TMR.