You're dealing with a precision rifle smith, for bedding a hunting rifle (and not a 1K yard hunting rifle).
I don't understand the reference to "bolt jump"... is he referring to bolt tilt- which is the result of trigger connector pressure on a cocked bolt?
Precision target rifles are built to minimize bolt tilt- I'll usually just order a custom bolt body that will result in the desired clearances in the bolt raceway. They can also be sleeved at the back to achieve the same result. But, minimizing bolt raceway clearance to mere thousandths is a baaad idea in a hunting rifle. You want the bolt to jam up because a speck of sand or dirt gets in there?
Next- what caliber is the rifle, you didn't say? What are the sizes of the mounting screw holes? If they're #6, and you're shooting a magnum, not a bad idea to get them enlarged to #8. IMO, 60 in/lbs is heavy for #8, and unheard of for #6. Torque values are also dependent on whether the fastener is lubricated (and type of lubricant e.g. threadlocker) or dry. Lubricated screws have lower torque values. Gotta be honest, I've never heard a smith say "well, if I break it..." ***? There's no guesswork with this. Screw torque values are scientifically known and there's no reason/rationale to vary from them. I don't understand his aversion to threadlocker. Please ask him, and then post back here what he says... I'd rather use threadlocker and lower torque than a dry screw and torque the shiznit out of it.
It doesn't sound to me like he's "pushing" precision work you don't need, so good on him. Any factory rifle these days (including inexpensive ones) are capable of shooting 3/4 minute with match grade ammo so long as there's proper, stress-free fitment of receiver to stock. Bedding is always a solid idea, and I'm sure your smith will do a proper job.