Wildrose
Alliant has data for RL-23 and 140 grain class bullets on its site. Shows ~ 44 grains will get you 2,700 and change depending the particular bullet. They also have data for RL-26 in the 243 Win which would give you a ball park for the 260 Rem. Of course now that you have discovered you really can't put too much in the case with RL-26 you have better data than they do for your rifles. The burn rate on RL-26 is just about the same as Retumbo which is pretty slow so it isn't likely you could put too much of it in anything that likes H4350 such as the 260 Rem.
That's where I started. Unfortunately they only list one load each for four different bullets all in 140gr. I even emailed them looking for starting loads for the 125g monometals and all they could suggest is to go to the bullet manufacturers.
Compressed loads have always made me nervous to the point of shying away from them completely for many years but my little experiment has given me a lot of confidence at least with these powders.
I may try a repeat of some of the RL26 loads tomorrow and shoot them Tuesday and Wednesday since we're supposed to be having a major warm up.
We're supposed to be about 30-40 Degrees warmer than we were Saturday so it should be interesting. I haven't seen broad swings in pressures with any of the powders I've used from 20-50F but I have seen some when temps jump from the 30's and 40's to the middle or upper 80's.
I shoot pretty much year round since varmint and predator control is a daily thing here and once I settle on a load it needs to be one that is consistent in single digit temps with frequently subzero wind chills to summer highs between 95-115.
Long ago when I ran a lot of H380 and H414 in both my 220 Swift and 7mm RM I did have some problems. Occasionally we'd have slow ignition in the winter to then turn around and have the same load blowing primers out in the summer.
I had an older model Winchester that had been rechambered from .225Win to .220 Swift which just about came apart on me one day in July shooting prairie dogs and put a real scare into me. The bolt on that model had an end cap held in place by a punch pin and the firing pin shot back so hard it sheared that pin and knocked the cap off.
I think you're right though at least with moderate temp's as I don't think I could have gone more than maybe another half grain up and still get the bullets to seat well. Both RL26 and RL23 are pretty bulky powders and fill up a case pretty fast.
I wasn't particularly concerned with the 125gr Peregrines due to the reduced bearing surface and weight but I was also loading some 143gr ELD-X's and 130gr Siroccos.
Note, I'm not recommending to others they try these powders or any others in highly compressed loads, just sharing my own experience. Use your own best judgement and always load and shoot safely.
My wife has even convinced me that when I'm doing load workups to never shoot without wearing both protective tactical gloves and shooting glasses.