I meant to reference this in my longer post last night as another example of a rational, well thought out and complete process that shows both the seating and charge sides of the ledger
This is more proof that multiple processes work.
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Getting those consistently is why hand loading is so addicting. You know you can do it and nothing else will ever be quite as good, you'll never trust factory ammo quite as much, and everytime you shoot something you didn't load you'll always have this nagging feeling that a bad target was the ammo's fault.
I've very rarely not found a good seating depth in what I'll call the first "major" depth interval of 0.000' to 0.050" off the lands. Doesn't mean I always use it, but when I've gone looking it's been there.
I'll qualify that by saying good means good, not perfect, and that I do believe all of Cal Zandt's evidence supporting Berger's recommendation of coarse seating intervals to identify multiple nodes - specifically wider, jump tolerant nodes that will work longer in high volume or fast firing schedules. A load that requires constant land chasing isn't in a wide enough node for what I'm asking it to do, and I should adjust seating to match the firing schedule I'm doing that makes the lands move like that.
And I also think that absolute precision doesn't necessarily sit in the middle of the widest node (or said another way, the most useable depth might not be the one that makes the smaller groups), so seating depth decisions are a constant trade off between finding the absolute smallest possible groups from a barrel and finding the most resilient load that works in the widest range of conditions. I've gotten some great loads, but they're super finicky and not practical. I've also accepted some loads y'all would call terrible because they do what they need to inside the constraints of that use.
For a hunting load I'll accept a sub-1 MOA group that shoots consistently in whatever conditions I'll be in over a load that shoots .3 MOA but I have to single feed, or it doesn't work over 50*, or I can't get the case wet, or if the bullet sets back in the mag it'll shoot way off, or if groups blow without my suppressor, etc.
Target loads worst that happens is I can't shoot the paper and I go home, those I can be a lot more precise with.
I'm not disagreeing with how you do this, if it works it works and it's at least as good as any other process that produces good results. I do somewhat disagree about having to start off the lands. I've started at and even into the lands just fine by using a powder charge from the low end of the chart and working up. I don't take a book COL load that's hot and seat it out and jam it, it's a deliberate process aimed at avoiding exactly what you said - a pressure spike. It also wasn't my first time with the chambering or powder, so I had experience to pair with Hodgdon's pressure data. For example if H4350 maxes out in a 6.5CM at 40.0gn compressed for 59k, below the 62k SAAMI max, and the starting load of 36.0gn is 49k of pressure, I'm not necessarily worried about creating a spike with a starting load at the lands. And if I am worried I can work out that way from the book COL, I don't have to start at a jammed seating depth if it's a new chambering, powder, bullet, etc. I've never had a problem, but that's because I'm conservative and careful about loading and not doing stupid things hopefully.
I admit I'm basically saying I can do this because I'm careful, so I'll add the disclaimer of "don't be stupid" to the random people on the internet who might read this
Along the lines of what Mike and I were saying about getting a load out of a node - you know you can produce a consistent .3-.4" group now, so have confidence in branching out and experimenting with different powders, seating depths, bullets, processes, etc because you know you can always road map back to a load that works well.
I'm a big believer in you have to climb the mountain yourself at least once, but once you're been there you know it's possible and (at least to me) it got a lot easier to do different things without any frustration. If something I was working on ended up sucking, no big deal just drop in a known load and make one little hole and feel good about going back to the drawing board.
I agree with the above that sometimes it's nice to have guidance on when to stop going down the rabbit hole, or be able to lean on people who've been there and seen something not work, but sometimes you have to buy the ticket and take the ride yourself.