Great, seems like we are making progress. Did you remove the firing pin and ejector plunger to eliminate cocking piece and case resistance when you did your bolt closing test? This gives you the best feel for setting the shoulder setback.#3. Use rifle, adjusted die until it take little to no force to close bolt
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How many firings on the brass when you did the bolt test? It can take two or more firings for the shoulder to reach maximum chamber length. With a new chamber I will test a case after each reload and firing until I feel resistance, then I know the brass has reached chamber dimensions. Then is when I set up the sizing die.