Well, both JP Enterprises and BHW came through in a big way for me.
BHW offered to take all my parts, make them fit right and even test fire it. All this for the cost of shipping! I was amazed. I expected at most them to offer to turn the barrel down.
JP then emailed me and said they already had new parts enroute (jam nut and barrel nut tool) that were made for this problem. They usually dealt with light weight barrels. The 1.2 diameter barrel is a standard, but not for those ordering from them in general.
In all I should have done more research before ordering. I never looked at what the standard diameter 308 AR barrel is right there. JP states their standard only fits up to a 1.17 barrel, so they were honest. BHW makes their barrels to a standard 1.2.
Still seeing two companies going the distance for their customers is a refreshing change these days. I have now decided who I will be ordering from in the future and recommending to anyone building any AR.