It starts with the base(s), how well do they fit the action? I bed all that I can. The one piece Talleys were a challenge because I felt that they needed to be clamped on the lapping bar while the bedding was curing.
Every ring set that I have lapped, from mid-high quality on down to cheap, has showed an irregular witness to the lapping. Maybe at the very high end of the scale they are truly round, concentric, and cylindrical, but none that I have lapped come even close to being all of those things. That includes a set of one piece Tally rings. Which, btw, due to the hidden fasteners couldn't be assembled to the scope and then torqued or even just screwed to the action. Not that I would ever ask the scope tube to try to force the mount and rings to correct their fit to the action.
The cynic in me says that the mfg's discourage lapping because they're afraid of what you'll find when you do lap the rings.
I lap until I have an 80%-90% witness, that is that 80%-90% of the inner surface of the rings shows sign of being lapped. With anodized aluminum rings or blued steel rings this is a very easy thing to see. Stainless steel and silver/clear anodized aluminum rings I would apply dykem first before lapping to make it easier to see where I'm getting contact and where I am not.
I have the Wheeler kit and I can't say that I'm a fan of it. The lapping compound supplied is far too coarse and I am not convinced that their bars are as round and cylindrical as they could be. I've considered making my own lapping bars from
linear motion shafts. I use
Clover valve lapping compounds, usually about 600 grit. It is not, and it should not be a fast process.
As to bedding, the fit of the rings to the scope via bedding could only be improved by first lapping the rings. Not because you're truing the rings, but to give the bedding compound some 'tooth' to adhere to. To do that I would use the Wheeler supplied compound because as coarse it is it will yield an excellent surface for adhesion of the bedding material.