Your last neck sizing is bullet seating. Every time.
This normalizes tension to mere spring back force per area applied.
You could size a neck down 10thou under cal, and another 1thou under cal, seat bullets, pull bullets, and both necks will spring back to the same ~1/2thou under cal. The force behind that spring back is what grips .xxx area of bullet bearing.
This force varies with brass hardness, which is a condition that does not have to be refreshed.
The harder the brass, the stronger the spring back force.
As far as bullet pull force, this is barely related to tension, and mostly friction.
Replacing a bullet may upset prior friction, but this makes no difference to internal ballistics (your chrono).