Steve, we all learn from someone and there is nothing wrong with that. I learned from an old gunsmith who had learned from someone else before that. Book learning has its place and so does learning from others who are willing to share. The more you do it the more it will come natural, Just remember you can determine where your lands start in your barrel and the rest is trying different distance's off the lands. The rifle will tell you what it likes, it will respond as you get to the sweet spot. Start with a most accurate powder suggestion for your caliber from a good loading manual (I like the nosler) start low charge and work your way up watching how it groups and looking for pressure signs as you get towards high charge weight. At some point it will group the best, I do a couple different powders and find the best. When you get a powder the gun likes with a charge weight the gun also likes with a bullet you want to use(V Maxes are good in 22's) than you do the distance off lands and fine tune as tight as it will group. Last try several primers CCI, Winchester, Federal (I like benchrest and match primers best) and it will usually respond to a certain primer. In a nutshell that will get you to a pretty accurate load, you can work up several load combos, its a lot of fun developing your own load for your gun. After a while you'll be telling or showing someone else how to do it. Nobody on here just suddenly knew it all, Its a process. Don't stop, let it become second nature, its accomplishment - fun - and it really opens up shooting and hunting horizons. Dave