I haven't been able to stop hunting whitetails long enough to have enough shots on other animals(Elk, bear, etc.) to be much help. But I have easily shot 150 whitetails over the years, and been in the hunting party of many more that were shot by friends.
For the longest time, when I was young and not interested in the subject, I shot all of my deer w/ a .300 WM, and used a hodge podge of bullets. I was told to shoot them high in the shoulder and there would be no tracking required. So that's what I did.....and that's what happened.
More recently, over the past 12-15 yrs, I've gotten interested in rifle building, longer range shooting, and the ballistics/terminal performance of different calibers and bullets. I also don't shoot nearly as many deer as before, as managing my ground for older deer has become the #1 priority.
But I have shot, and witnessed many others shot with Berger VLDs, and the only complaint is the amount of meat ruined by the devastating wound channel and exit hole. Most were shot w/168gr but a few w/ 180s out of a 7STW, and a few more w/ 140s. All the same result....bang, flop, then came the comments about the exit hole.
I realize these are not Elk, so I don't pretend the same results will transfer.
Many of these whitetails have been big, mature, heavy weights, in Nebraska, Canada, Kansas and Wisconsin.....but still not the size of an elk.
I hope to get off the deer one day and hunt Elk and other animals with some regularity. I guess I'll cross that bridge when I get there and decide what bullet to use at that time.
My only other comment is most of the time "poor bullet performance" and equipment shortcomings in general, are actually user error. If u shoot an animal and never recover, how do you know exactly where the entrance and exit were? I have friends who produce TV shows in the industry and film every hunt. They use the best camera equipment made, and we still have times where a consensus opinion cannot reached....after playing back the shot on a 60 inch, high def flat screen TV....297 times....in slow motion.
I do enjoy reading about the crazy things that others have experienced....a lot more educational than the newspaper or cable news.