Let me preface this by saying my question does NOT apply to anyone I've interacted with on this forum.
Historically, I've had bad customer service from gunsmiths. Simple business 101 type things - respond when a customer asks a question, answer all the questions asked, be generally polite and likable, don't act annoyed that I'm trying to give you my business, etc. Follow up when you finish the job or if you hit a snag that's going to delay completion.
For example before the pandemic I moved to a new area and was trying to find a smith. The first 3 I emailed never responded. At all. The fourth responded, but I'd asked a few questions and he only answered one question with a very brief one sentence email. I followed up and ended up giving him the work (which I was very happy with). But even then, he works out of his shop in his backyard so it was difficult to get a time to drop off the equipment (I certainly understand when your business is at your house its a little different than having a storefront with posted hours, so additional coordination is expected.)
Another example I've seen is if the smith doesn't agree with what I want done, like I want bedding to stop at the recoil lug, but the smith's believes the chamber should also be bedded. The response I've seen is to get butt-hurt and then be very dismissive or treat me like I'm in idiot. I'd happily listen to why you recommend it.. You're the expert, I'm just the guy who reads things on the internet and tries to make sense of it all.
I'm a laid back guy who treats people well. I've had many customer service focused jobs, so I really don't think it's the way I treat them. Is there something else I should be considering? Is my experience the norm or am I just that unlucky?
I agree with you and disagree with you at the same time.
I'm a terrible customer for some gunsmiths a great one for others, I'll bet. I want to understand every bit of work going into my rifle and make sure it all passes the knowledge gained from my experience and that the gunsmith also thinks it is a feasible build.
What I mean is if I ask you to put a flush cup in a thin foam filled carbon stock, how are you going to back it so it doesn't fall out? Have you done it before? How will you test it? Do you guarantee it?
Gunsmithing seems to be a blend of experience, art, workmanship and communication. Communication is important and not easily done.
These guys are taking a risk doing what you ask....if you ask to put a $100 Joe Blow barrel blank on your build and they put their name on it, there is forever a gun floating around with a Joe Blow barrel on it and their name. If it shoots 4" 100 yd groups, all people see is the builders name.
On the other hand, if you say chamber it in a 6.5, they may think you wanted a 6.5 Carcano like they like, but you thought you were getting a Creedmoor.....or perhaps you say 308 and they use a match reamer somebody made for 125gr bullets instead of the 180's you were gonna shoot.
Some gunsmiths want you to say good barrel, 270 win, fiberglass stock and that is it. Others want as much detail as you can give. You get what you put into it.
Others are willing to take more input. My last rifle was 4-5 phone calls, supplied parts and a 4 page email....but I'm really happy with the result...