my vote goes for the 7mm-08 , I have three of them .
I bought a Browning X-bolt in 7mm-08 for my girlfriend , she shoots left handed . she had always hunted before with a 243 . when her and her ex split he kept the 243 . I played on quickload and got the recoil of a 243 shooting 100 gr ammo . then I played on quickload and matched the recoil to the 7mm-08 shooting nosler 120 gr ballistic tips . now if she would decide to hunt something bigger than whitetails , I can just load the appropriate bullet . this gun will grow with her .
the load that gives roughly the same recoil as a 100 gr 243 .
7mm-08
120 gr nosler ballistic tip
H4895 39.0 gr
remington brass
cci 200 primer
2716 FPS