I'm onto my first 6.5 A-square,,, much smaller case and alot less ft-per seconds,,, I too was concerned about barrel life,,, so this was some of the ideas that I got going forward...
Tap it kool on the hot loads when possible,,, I enjoy going after predators in the off season,,, so mid range loads work for me in this category... All I will do is change to 110/120gr boolitz and dig out the range-card to get me on target at those distantanses...
Allow for kool down time between the shots,,, I've never been a fast shooter,,, when I do practic this I use my 30 caliber rifles,,, any-who,,, I think that spreading the shots out gives the barrel throat time to kool,,, flash burn has been known to eat up barrel life fast... Hotter the charge the greater the flash burn...
Take the time to knock out the carbon build up once in a while,,, that way the boolitz get a chance to dig deeper into the rifling instead of stuffing the top edges of the sharp cut in them... Of course this is only a thought... Ha.
And load heavy for hunting since we know we're going after the thick skins,,, I find that heavy / long boolitz are normally going slower than lite / sort projectile,,, The longer booltiz have excellent bearing surface becuase they are long,,, more meat for the rifling to grab... And boolitz are less likely to bunch up if they leave the luanch pad a little bit slower,,, basically,,, what they lack in speed they make up for punch-junk down range...
To keep things on the up & up I don't fear loading hot and heavy for the actual hunt / hunting,,, this is what these 6.5's and all hunting rifles are for...
So you have options,,, tap it kool in the off season,,, load hot and heavy when it's needed,,, my unit is built for hunting mainly,,, my other rifles will fill in for the other part of the good times...
PS: As stated above,,, don't look at it as a barrel burner,,,, look at it from the hunting aspect and how full the freezer is at the end of the year.
If I tap it kool with my unit I might get 3 to 5 years so long as I use it for hunting and predator control.