I've got both a 7rum and 300rum. The 300rum is an absolute hammer. The 7rum still doesn't have its footing (still playing with test loads but have the last rifle's playbook handy for reference) but it'll be a hammer too if all plays out like the tea leaves are reading so far. The rums are good calibers; I may have to get a 338 and 375 also like doublez so I have one of each.
As to barrel life, my 300rum has a bunch of rounds on it and she's still going strong with little wear showing. My last 7rum went in normal fashion, but I did shoot the crap out of her at the range a few times. I love my 7stw, but I've made more difficult and farther shots with the 7rum. This 7stw aint to shabby so far though.
I've thought about the 300 ackley or hart, but my 300win is close, my 300rum whoops it, and it would cost a mint to refit my browning 300win with a good pipe and a new mag.. good cal's, but I've gotten that niche taken care of already.