I have shot most every 10MM pistol out there. I will give you my recommendations on four excellent pistols; the rest you might just as well leave in the store.
#1 high capacity is the CZ-75 clone from European American Arms the 10MM witness/hunter. if you have a bigger hand this gun will be for you. stellar gun!
#2, Single Stack: CZ/Dan Wesson Bruin absolutely top notch handgun, wonderful to shoot. accurate and utterly reliable. I would love to own one but the $2,200.00 price is a little steep for me.
#3, single stack: the Ruger SR-1911 in 10MM this is the most gentle shooting, 10MM of the bunch, quick second shots and one might find it's way into my safe.
#4, Single Stack: Sig Sauer P-220 Hunter. this gun is just all around the best gun for a slightly larger handed guy than me. its accurate and very reliable.
Now for the Glock people.. the G-20 and the G-40; I just do not trust them at all.