Sometimes I wonder if the members here and elsewhere respond to their friends, family and children. They should, because one day their children will be members of this forum and I would like to believe we would treat them as our own, because so many of them we have watched grow, become proficient marksmans and participate in hunts they will surely remember for the rest of their lives.
I rarely intentionally add anyone to the ignore list, I can moderate myself well enough to get by. Besides, if the thread is something I am interested in, I generally follow along and if an ignored member responds and steers the conversation into a different Tanger, it helps me follow along.
I agree hot topics bring out all sides with their own personal belief system, right or wrong, that is their right. We have become a product of our environment, we are an instant gratification society, we want what we want and we want it right now. We also like to believe we are the smartest person in the room, there is no one here that doesn't have the need to be educated, when you believe you have learned all there is to learn, why continue to participate? You can find any "evidence" to support your theory/ideology with a quick Google search.
I am a very smart ignorant person, I am very proficient at my job, I can do things others can not, not because I know it all, but because I am willing and eager to learn(the reason some of my threads seem innocuous to many).
My grandfather had a lot of people he considered unfriendly and didn't interact with them, but if they fell on misery or hard times, he would help them in anyway he could. Sometimes misery trumps hatred, we have forgotten how to be empathetic to our fellow man, whether it's his opinion, his lifestyle, his actions or simply who he was born, we need to remember, he's looking at us with the same skeptical eye.
One reason I changed my user name everywhere was because I don't want to hide behind a screen name, there are plenty of forums that I was a healthy contributor to, but because some socks decided to try to steer everything, criticize or mock the other members, I rarely visit. Last count was 16 forums that I haven't visited in years, I won't be missed and I don't miss them.