Insert a length of dowel, or a cleaning rod with a flat tip or cut-off jag, into the muzzle until it touches the bolt face. Score the cleaning rod with a small mark using a knife laying flat across the muzzle. Next, drop the bullet (not a round) you want to measure into the throat and hold it against the rifling. Then, insert the cleaning rod into the muzzle until it rests against the bullet tip. Again, score the rod at the muzzle.
Using your calipers, measure the distance between the two score marks on the rod. The distance is the maximum overall cartridge length for that particular bullet. Do it a couple times with different bullets out of the same box to verify the marks are accurate.
Subtract .005" from your measure, or whatever you're comfortable with, and you have the COAL you're looking for.
Remember, other bullet types may be quite different because of their ogive shapes.